Oh, my brave Injun-man, how I long to be with you and feel your red manhood. Look after my little paapoosie [sic], and soon I’ll be your squaw again. I love you, kemosabe, Anna.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n
Awesome. Also, I love the idea of an Icelandic person arriving at that particular crossroads. I wonder which word looks, to a non-native English speaker, like a Menzroom or a Ladiezroom. Icelandic: Karlar and Konur is mildly scary for foreigners, but they helpfully provide diagrams. Thank god nobody happens to be Two-Spirit up in Butlins or who knows what they’d do.<\/p>\n
M<\/span>oving back stateside, I had an amazing experience the other day in the brand new Alice Tully Hall. First of all, before I get into my rant, the Brand New Alice Tully Hall is a Beautiful Space and it sounds amazing and it looks divine and I love it. However. They have installed a caf\u00e9. And this caf\u00e9 has a bunch of really quickly identifiable problems. It starts with the Officious Homosexual they have hired to run the door. Y’all. In this day and age, an Officious Homosexual bears the same comedic currency as having a Stuffy French Maitre D’. Nobody does it anymore because it is hopelessly old-school and functionally useless. Even DANIEL BOULUD fired his! Remember Bruno Jamais? Mm. Anyway, Thomas and I walked up in there, dressed, I might add, quite well, and the conversation went like this here:<\/p>\nME: Hi! So what’s the deal, can we just sit wherever? (gesturing to the sixty empty tables)
\nHIM: No, you can’t just sit anywhere.<\/em><\/p>\nUh-oh, trouble already!
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\nME: [!]
\nHIM: Are you going to be eating?
\nME: Oh, no we were just hoping to grab a drink.<\/em><\/p>\nMind, it’s 4:00 PM on a Sunday and all that I, and anybody else, wants at that time is a campari and soda. You eat AFTERWARDS. 4 PM on a Sunday talking about, “are you going to be eating.” Anyway moving on:<\/p>\n
HIM: Well, you can sit over there [gestures to a weird solarium-like space with a bunch of really high stools and rickety tables] or at the bar. But the tables are just for people who are eating.<\/em><\/p>\nThis is, like, my Least Favorite Thing In The World Ever. And the fact that it’s happening at Lincoln Center, which is trying so hard to reinvent itself “\u201d it is neither convenient nor fancy to have these nonsensical rules and the fact that the law was being read to me buy some collageny man with linen pants and a boat shoe was almost too much to handle. But, chastised, we wandered over to the tables next to bar. The following exchange then took place:<\/p>\n
ME: Hi, could I have two camparis and soda, please?
\nLADY: Yes, that’ll be $22.
\nME: [start getting cash out of my pocket. at this time, I notice that she is starting to pour the campari into plastic cups. I see that there are real glasses just behind her.]
\nME: Excuse me, would you mind if I had those in real glasses?
\nHER: [deadpan] Why?<\/p>\n
Ahahahahahahahah!<\/p>\n
ME: Because you just charged me $11 for a glass of campari, and because I’m not at a baseball game?
\nHER: It’s against the rules. Unless you’re sitting at a table, I have to use the plastic cups.
\nME: But I am sitting at a table! [gestures to the table where my computer and bag and book are at]
\nHER: Well, I already poured it. And it’s not my rules.<\/p>\n
Ugh, it’s not my rules. I quote this thing all the time, but this little paragraph is, I think, the singlemost fantastic piece of thinking by Gayatri Spivak ever:<\/p>\n
\n“”\u00a6 I was supposed to take the airplane from Heathrow on Sunday. Air Canada says to me: “\u02dcwe can’t accept you.’ I said: “\u02dcwhy?’ and she said: “\u02dcYou need a visa to go to Canada.’ I said: “\u02dclook here, I am the same person, the same passport”\u00a6 “\u02dc Indian cultural identity right? But you become different. When it is from London, Indians can very well want to jump ship to Canada; I need a visa to travel from London to Canada on the same passport, but not from the United States. To cut a long story short,[…] I had to stay another day, and telephone Canada and tell them that I could not give my seminar. I said to the woman finally before I left, in some bitterness: “\u02dcJust let me tell you one small thing: Don’t say “we can’t accept you”\u009d that sounds very bad from one human being to another; next time you should say: “The regulations are against it”\u009d; then we are both victims.’<\/p><\/blockquote>\n
\u00c3\u201d, Svetlana from the Alice Tully Caf\u00e9! Now We Are Both Victims! It’s more just the idea of asking somebody from whom you have just taken $22 “Why.” Between adults, you almost never use that word as a stand-alone, because usually people’s motives are clear enough, or, if they aren’t, one is too polite to interrogate it with a W-word. For instance, if Stephen Petronio called my house up talking about, “Can you give me another minute of music between section 4 and section 5” I would say to him, “yes, absolutely. Can you tell me anything specific about it, is it an extension of this or an extension of that.” I would not say, “Why,” because can you imagine how aggressive? <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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