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		<title>By: Mike</title>
		<link>http://nicomuhly.com/news/2009/what-to-expect-if-youre-expecting/comment-page-1/#comment-8801</link>
		<dc:creator>Mike</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 May 2009 13:19:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nico,
Thanks for writing about the things that you find interesting.  The rest of us find them so as well, else we wouldn&#039;t be here.  The upside of the internet is that we all get to easily find your musings.  The downside is that it facilitates that .01% of the world that are crackpots.

I don&#039;t know much about being a musician, even less about Iceland, diacriticals and which selections an orchestra should play together, but I find your intelligent comments on them fascinating.  Thank you for sharing a piece of you so publicly!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nico,<br />
Thanks for writing about the things that you find interesting.  The rest of us find them so as well, else we wouldn&#8217;t be here.  The upside of the internet is that we all get to easily find your musings.  The downside is that it facilitates that .01% of the world that are crackpots.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know much about being a musician, even less about Iceland, diacriticals and which selections an orchestra should play together, but I find your intelligent comments on them fascinating.  Thank you for sharing a piece of you so publicly!</p>
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		<title>By: Chris J.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chris J.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 May 2009 06:29:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The J. is only to distinguish myself from the other Chris&#039;s (from now on?).

I tweeted you and hope I didn&#039;t offend by asking about &quot;jazz-inspired&quot; music. I think it&#039;s sometimes thrilling to, say, watch &quot;The Reader&quot; and listen to your music and then have you tweet me and be able to tell my music-loving friends in Podunk, Colorado about it. But apart from trying to be a part of &quot;celebrity&quot; or some derivative of that, as [almost] everyone else above has already said, it is a Joy (no religious connotation because of capitalization) to read your blog and sympathize/empathize with things happening musically, grammatically, gastrointestinally, and otherwise in the/your world.

And, a propos, wonderful double reed work in the movie. I play the violin, but bassoonists (and sometimes oboists) are my favourite people.

So don&#039;t let what&#039;s-his-face get you down. He should go read some other blog, like &lt;a href=&quot;http://menwholooklikeoldlesbians.blogspot.com/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;this one&lt;/a&gt;. Uh-oh.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The J. is only to distinguish myself from the other Chris&#8217;s (from now on?).</p>
<p>I tweeted you and hope I didn&#8217;t offend by asking about &#8220;jazz-inspired&#8221; music. I think it&#8217;s sometimes thrilling to, say, watch &#8220;The Reader&#8221; and listen to your music and then have you tweet me and be able to tell my music-loving friends in Podunk, Colorado about it. But apart from trying to be a part of &#8220;celebrity&#8221; or some derivative of that, as [almost] everyone else above has already said, it is a Joy (no religious connotation because of capitalization) to read your blog and sympathize/empathize with things happening musically, grammatically, gastrointestinally, and otherwise in the/your world.</p>
<p>And, a propos, wonderful double reed work in the movie. I play the violin, but bassoonists (and sometimes oboists) are my favourite people.</p>
<p>So don&#8217;t let what&#8217;s-his-face get you down. He should go read some other blog, like <a href="http://menwholooklikeoldlesbians.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">this one</a>. Uh-oh.</p>
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		<title>By: Buddy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Buddy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 May 2009 01:40:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I like your writing too. I think you are really cute. I don&#039;t know anything about music, but I think you are real smart.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I like your writing too. I think you are really cute. I don&#8217;t know anything about music, but I think you are real smart.</p>
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		<title>By: Benjamin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Benjamin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2009 20:26:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree with the people who posted above me: your blog is a True Joy.

Excellent point on Adams, and on music / art in general. The Philadelphia Orchestra is going to perform Adams&#039; &quot;City Noir&quot; the spring after Dudamel conducts it in L.A. While I could probably hunt around the internet and hear it, I&#039;m with you in that I&#039;d rather sit back, be challenged and surprised. Also, clicking on all the links in the above post led me to a comment on your Philadelphia First Unitarian show. You should come back soon; it was one of the best concerts I&#039;ve ever attended.

Regarding diacritical marks and pronunciation, the English tend to bastardize foreign languages much more than Americans. British Airways, for one, left my brother and I suffering paroxysmic laughter in Madrid International. The floor really isn&#039;t all that clean, so I don&#039;t suggest rolling on it. The loudspeaker directed us to board a plane headed for &quot;Palma de Mallorca&quot;. They got the first word correct, but proceeded to pronounce &quot;de&quot; like &quot;duh&quot; and &quot;Mallorca&quot; as if it were a description of Free Willy misbehaving. Maybe you had to be there. Probably.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with the people who posted above me: your blog is a True Joy.</p>
<p>Excellent point on Adams, and on music / art in general. The Philadelphia Orchestra is going to perform Adams&#8217; &#8220;City Noir&#8221; the spring after Dudamel conducts it in L.A. While I could probably hunt around the internet and hear it, I&#8217;m with you in that I&#8217;d rather sit back, be challenged and surprised. Also, clicking on all the links in the above post led me to a comment on your Philadelphia First Unitarian show. You should come back soon; it was one of the best concerts I&#8217;ve ever attended.</p>
<p>Regarding diacritical marks and pronunciation, the English tend to bastardize foreign languages much more than Americans. British Airways, for one, left my brother and I suffering paroxysmic laughter in Madrid International. The floor really isn&#8217;t all that clean, so I don&#8217;t suggest rolling on it. The loudspeaker directed us to board a plane headed for &#8220;Palma de Mallorca&#8221;. They got the first word correct, but proceeded to pronounce &#8220;de&#8221; like &#8220;duh&#8221; and &#8220;Mallorca&#8221; as if it were a description of Free Willy misbehaving. Maybe you had to be there. Probably.</p>
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		<title>By: Tom</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2009 20:09:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I hate a lot of people on the internet. Which is funny, because I so rarely indulge those feelings when I&#039;m offline. It makes me think about supposedly sacred properties of words, and the psychological difference between physically writing something down on paper and typing it on a screen. 

I think most people have to struggle so hard to find their voice and be able to say anything that wields even a trace of authority or influence, and defaulting to meanness is the easiest way to feel temporarily powerful. Illusory, short-term, Pyrrhic victories online are all most people can muster with their voice, and they are too insecure to accept anyone who&#039;s found or created his or her own authentic voice. Everyone wants to be the one pointing out that the Emperor has no clothes on -- funny that we all seem to have read that story imagining ourselves as the observant child, not as the Emperor, though it&#039;s obvious that the tale&#039;s lessons speak to his foolish behavior.

You have your own clear voice, and you make no apologies for it. You present yourself as yourself and nothing more, which many people find to be quite beautiful, and I think all of that must drive lots of people to say cruel and dismissive things. But of course, your fellow Times commentor reminds us of the enduring truth of the matter, which will one day be written in golden garlands on the moon: &quot;HATERS CAN SUCK IT.&quot; That&#039;s really the final word on the subject in my book.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I hate a lot of people on the internet. Which is funny, because I so rarely indulge those feelings when I&#8217;m offline. It makes me think about supposedly sacred properties of words, and the psychological difference between physically writing something down on paper and typing it on a screen. </p>
<p>I think most people have to struggle so hard to find their voice and be able to say anything that wields even a trace of authority or influence, and defaulting to meanness is the easiest way to feel temporarily powerful. Illusory, short-term, Pyrrhic victories online are all most people can muster with their voice, and they are too insecure to accept anyone who&#8217;s found or created his or her own authentic voice. Everyone wants to be the one pointing out that the Emperor has no clothes on &#8212; funny that we all seem to have read that story imagining ourselves as the observant child, not as the Emperor, though it&#8217;s obvious that the tale&#8217;s lessons speak to his foolish behavior.</p>
<p>You have your own clear voice, and you make no apologies for it. You present yourself as yourself and nothing more, which many people find to be quite beautiful, and I think all of that must drive lots of people to say cruel and dismissive things. But of course, your fellow Times commentor reminds us of the enduring truth of the matter, which will one day be written in golden garlands on the moon: &#8220;HATERS CAN SUCK IT.&#8221; That&#8217;s really the final word on the subject in my book.</p>
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		<title>By: Amanda</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amanda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 May 2009 18:56:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I came to your music because of my enthusiasm for Arvo Pärt (of which you&#039;ve written) and Benjamin Millepied&#039;s enthusiasm for Muhly; then I discovered your website and blog and was hooked. Thanks for your curiosity and discernment and your beautiful writing (an antidote to much that is cringe-worthy on the Web) -- and of course your extraordinary music. Also thanks for mentioning John Blow, whose &quot;My God, my God, look upon me&quot; I recently sang and loved. The &quot;Salvator Mundi&quot; is magnificent, and I&#039;m ordering it right away. Please ignore all trolls and continue to share your thoughts and enthusiasms with us. Yours diacritically....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I came to your music because of my enthusiasm for Arvo Pärt (of which you&#8217;ve written) and Benjamin Millepied&#8217;s enthusiasm for Muhly; then I discovered your website and blog and was hooked. Thanks for your curiosity and discernment and your beautiful writing (an antidote to much that is cringe-worthy on the Web) &#8212; and of course your extraordinary music. Also thanks for mentioning John Blow, whose &#8220;My God, my God, look upon me&#8221; I recently sang and loved. The &#8220;Salvator Mundi&#8221; is magnificent, and I&#8217;m ordering it right away. Please ignore all trolls and continue to share your thoughts and enthusiasms with us. Yours diacritically&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: troy</title>
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		<dc:creator>troy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 May 2009 16:42:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>just to be clear, we expect music at concerts.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>just to be clear, we expect music at concerts.</p>
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		<title>By: Chuck</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chuck</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 May 2009 07:01:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nico, I&#039;m sorry to hear of your grandmother&#039;s passing. Thank you for sharing your unique spirit with those of us who enjoy your music, your blog and your originality.  You are a breath of fresh air~</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nico, I&#8217;m sorry to hear of your grandmother&#8217;s passing. Thank you for sharing your unique spirit with those of us who enjoy your music, your blog and your originality.  You are a breath of fresh air~</p>
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		<title>By: PB</title>
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		<dc:creator>PB</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 May 2009 06:43:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t *expect* that you wrote this as an attempt to draw out all of us quiet lurkers who love your blog.  But we&#039;ve shown up anyway.  Forget the troll and know that for every one of them who fixes his fingers to type something insipid and negative, there are surely thousands (tens of thousands?) of us who read and smile and appreciate your wit and wordplay and novel takes on things.  Keep on keepin&#039; on Nico.  (My only complaint:  I want more!)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t *expect* that you wrote this as an attempt to draw out all of us quiet lurkers who love your blog.  But we&#8217;ve shown up anyway.  Forget the troll and know that for every one of them who fixes his fingers to type something insipid and negative, there are surely thousands (tens of thousands?) of us who read and smile and appreciate your wit and wordplay and novel takes on things.  Keep on keepin&#8217; on Nico.  (My only complaint:  I want more!)</p>
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		<title>By: beu</title>
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		<dc:creator>beu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2009 22:29:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>your writing is so alluring to me. 
both at musical and &quot;blogger&quot; level.

eat up!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>your writing is so alluring to me.<br />
both at musical and &#8220;blogger&#8221; level.</p>
<p>eat up!</p>
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		<title>By: Heather</title>
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		<dc:creator>Heather</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2009 15:07:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Was reading a waterlogged Departures magazine found in a reststop in NY and liked what they wrote about you so here I am. Haven&#039;t yet listened to one peep of your music, but if it&#039;s half as good as your blog, I&#039;m sure my expectations will be exceeded. ;)\nHeather</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Was reading a waterlogged Departures magazine found in a reststop in NY and liked what they wrote about you so here I am. Haven&#8217;t yet listened to one peep of your music, but if it&#8217;s half as good as your blog, I&#8217;m sure my expectations will be exceeded. <img src='http://nicomuhly.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> \nHeather</p>
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		<title>By: Max</title>
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		<dc:creator>Max</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2009 02:51:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nico, if it matters, I think your blog is most definitely interesting. And also entertaining. And also, often, educational. And if it&#039;s ever *not* all of these things (which has never happened thus, and I sincerely doubt), it will undoubtedly be, at the very least, one of them. 

I&#039;ve read all of your blogs since discovering your music last September, and I do plan to continue the habit.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nico, if it matters, I think your blog is most definitely interesting. And also entertaining. And also, often, educational. And if it&#8217;s ever *not* all of these things (which has never happened thus, and I sincerely doubt), it will undoubtedly be, at the very least, one of them. </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve read all of your blogs since discovering your music last September, and I do plan to continue the habit.</p>
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		<title>By: Valerie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Valerie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2009 02:48:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nico- thank you for everything you write. I admire your freedom in choosing what you write about. I&#039;ve always felt a bit stifled on my blog, which is why I haven&#039;t written there for a while. You inspire me to just write about what excites me.

I love your curiosity about life, language, music, food, travel, etc. I&#039;ve discovered great Icelandic music through your site and have fallen even more in love with the place, although I haven&#039;t been there yet.

You have strong opinions, so you are going to attract &#039;haters&#039; from time to time, I&#039;m afraid. It&#039;s so much easier to try and knock someone else down rather than to create something of one&#039;s own (cf youtube comments, which I can&#039;t read without wanting to throw up). 

Just keep doing what you do. We love you for it!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nico- thank you for everything you write. I admire your freedom in choosing what you write about. I&#8217;ve always felt a bit stifled on my blog, which is why I haven&#8217;t written there for a while. You inspire me to just write about what excites me.</p>
<p>I love your curiosity about life, language, music, food, travel, etc. I&#8217;ve discovered great Icelandic music through your site and have fallen even more in love with the place, although I haven&#8217;t been there yet.</p>
<p>You have strong opinions, so you are going to attract &#8216;haters&#8217; from time to time, I&#8217;m afraid. It&#8217;s so much easier to try and knock someone else down rather than to create something of one&#8217;s own (cf youtube comments, which I can&#8217;t read without wanting to throw up). </p>
<p>Just keep doing what you do. We love you for it!</p>
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		<title>By: tero</title>
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		<dc:creator>tero</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2009 00:23:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>oh, oh, oh. that newsweek piece. you are soooo cute!

just wish scratching the magazine paper would play a brand new snippet of one of your beautiful creations.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>oh, oh, oh. that newsweek piece. you are soooo cute!</p>
<p>just wish scratching the magazine paper would play a brand new snippet of one of your beautiful creations.</p>
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		<title>By: dick</title>
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		<dc:creator>dick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2009 00:13:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nico--this is one of your most interesting blogs ever.  I&#039;m 76 yrs old &amp; learned about you last Summer at Edington.  Since then I read every blog.  I think those diacritical marks would be used appropriately if our US keyboards easily produced them.   I agree with your remark about Church music.  Loved the Salvator mundi.
Keep blogging.  I wish I had your brains!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nico&#8211;this is one of your most interesting blogs ever.  I&#8217;m 76 yrs old &amp; learned about you last Summer at Edington.  Since then I read every blog.  I think those diacritical marks would be used appropriately if our US keyboards easily produced them.   I agree with your remark about Church music.  Loved the Salvator mundi.<br />
Keep blogging.  I wish I had your brains!</p>
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